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A Team That Plays Together…

… STAYS TOGETHER.

After the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida last week, Matt took us to Universal Studios for a day and a half.  We did this for multiple reasons:

  1. We were already across the street from Universal… so why not.
  2. It was an EXCELLENT way to let all the information we just heard really soak in before heading home to jump back into life.
  3. In real life, we don’t get as much time to just “hang out” due to work.  It was a good way to just enjoy one another’s company.
  4. We love roller coasters.  There is something really bonding about screaming together on a roller coaster.

Here are some pictures of our time together (Matt, Brian, Paxton & Me):

The Men

The boys.

Our First Ride

Our first ride at Universal was on The Mummy.

Three's a Crowd

The best part was the “Child Swap” lines.  This helped us get to the front of the lines for all the rides… but one of us was always left out to watch Paxton.  Here I am… not happy about it.

Krustyland

There’s a whole land just for Krusty.  Gross.

The Mouth of Krusty

This ride made me and Matt REALLY motion sick.

The Hulk

The Hulk.

The Hulk - Best Ride Ever

We rode this ride 3 times.

Jurassic Park

Jurassic Park.

Turkey Leg

I think this is a Pterodactyl leg.  Is it sad that I only bought this because I wanted the picture?  I didn’t finish it either.  Way too much food!

Scorpion Lollipops

Scorpion Lollipops.  Gross!  I threw up in the store.

Poseidon's Fury

Poseidon’s Fury.  Apparently, not furious enough… it was HOT there.

Kobe Bryant's Hand

Holding Kobe Bryant’s hand.

Hard Rock Cafe

Hard Rock Cafe.

Universal Logo

Universal Studios Logo.  The midst kept us cool.

NBA City

NBA City… I was almost as tall as this statue.  Really…

Matt's Thoughts

Matt’s thoughts on screen for all to see.

It was a BLAST!!!

So you tell me:  ”All work and no play make me a (fill in the blank).”

Worship Confessional – 04.26.09

I feel a bit out of it.  

As most of you know, we were in Florida all week for the Exponential Conference.  It was good to get away… why does it always feel like you need a vacation from your vacation.

Anyway… we were gone from Monday through late Saturday, so we headed into Sunday morning like dizzy spider-monkeys… but all of us were SUPER renewed in our focus and purpose… so I guess we were dizzy spider-monkeys with focus and purpose.

Here are some pictures of what it looks like BEFORE set up:

setup1

setup2

And here it is DURING service:

service1

setup final

Not the greatest photos since it was with my iPhone, but you get the point.

Here was our Sunday Setlist:

  1. Glory – Reuben Morgan
  2. Desert Song – Brooke Fraser
  3. Meet With Me – Lamont Hiebert
  4. Befriended – Matt Redman
  5. Healer – Mike Gugliamucci
  6. Mighty To Save – Morgan & Fielding

Highlights:  well… obviously, Matt & I were coming off of a high from our week at Exponential so we were pretty “on” with the speaking and music.  Brian even said that it felt like one of our strongest weeks there.  That’s a plus.  But my favorite part of the morning was stepping back off the mic during “Mighty To Save” and hearing the church sing out to God.  That never gets old.

Also… we got set-up quickly.  Probably because it was just me and guitar this past week (I could schedule a practice since I was gone, so it was easier just to do the “one-woman-show” deal).  I didn’t feel rushed into our morning.

Lowlights:  My past sins were weighing heavily on my shoulders that morning.  It was a struggle to allow God to remind me that I am forgiven and loved.  Satan was REALLY trying to take me down by reminding me of how unworthy I am.

I can’t wait for the day I will no longer feel guilt for my past, but for now, I am SO grateful for the glimpse of grace in my life.  That’s where my worship to God comes from… desperation and desire for resolve in my life.

Where does your cry of worship come from?

Exponential Conference 2009 – Day 2

I took notes today but I’m not posting them up tonight because of a million factors (one factor being Craig Groeschel kicked my booty across the room… twice… so I need to just let that sink in first), but I DID Twitter a lot of it.  

However, today, I want to focus on the people portion of the conference.  I have gotten the privilege of meeting some really AWESOME people.  Most of them, I have been following via Twitter or blog for quite some time… so it’s more like reconnecting with an old friend.

I got to meet Dave Ferguson (@daveferguson).  First thing he did was come up and give me a hug.  Second thing, he says: “You Twitter a lot about food!”  HA!  He’s right, ya know.  I think that’s how he’s been introducing me to people too.  HAHA!

Also met Mary Beth Stockdale (@mbstockdale), who is just about as cute as a button.  Ever met a person who just has the “glow-of-Christ’s-love” on them?  Yeah… that’s her.  When she talks to you, she makes you feel like you’re the only person in the room.  I need to learn how to be more like her when it comes to people.

Jenni, Mary Beth Stockdale & Matt Payne

Then, there’s Eric Bramlett (@billshazzar) who is SO funny, he just about makes me pee my pants from laughing so hard.  Seriously… every time he opens his mouth, only KUH-RAZY comes out.  There is something NOT RIGHT about him…

Matt Payne, Eric Bramlett & Jenni

But the coolest couple we’ve had the privilege of meeting is by FAR are Justin and Trisha Davis (@justindavis33 & @trishadavis23).  It started with me standing in the main worship auditorium.  Justin and Trish walk by and Justin stops, looks at me for a minute and says something like:

“Hey… you’re Jenni Clayville?”

I think I started to sweat.  I was, like, um… ruh-roh… what did I do now?  But I replied, “Yes…”  Was I supposed to know him?  Cuz seriously… the babies took away ALL my memory brain cells… every last one.  Could have been a REALLY awkward moment!

Long story short, they went to high school with Matt Payne (@mlpayne) and are also good friends with Pete & Brandi Wilson (@pwilson & @brandiandboys) who are friends with Brent & Tammy Hodge (@inworship & @inprogress) who are my friends frienemies enemies people (whatev!).  

Nice full circle, right?

Justin & Trisha Davis, Paxton, Jenni & Brian Clayville

Their story of how God has restored their lives from a place of complete brokenness humbles me.  You can read their story HERE!

Brian and I seem to be surrounded by friends who are calling it quits in their marriage.  The sin that has crept up in their lives or the brokenness that seems to be irreparable looks too difficult to conquer.  Forgiveness and redemption appears impossible.  Then, we meet Justin and Trisha… a couple who made is making it.   A couple continuing to CHOOSE to make it every day after pain and brokenness beyond any describable words.

I think that may be my next tattoo:  CHOOSE LOVE.

When was the last time you CHOSE love?

Exponential Conference 2009 – Day 1

Today was our first day at the Exponential Conference.  It wasn’t even a full day today and I ALREADY feel refreshed and refueled.  It’s been a long time since I’ve felt this way and it couldn’t come at a better time.

Already warning you… this will be a longer post since I’m just decompressing and inserting some of the notes from today.  This is probably not a post for all of you, but I know some of you would love to read the my notes.  To make it easier, I’ll just bullet point everything.  If you have any questions, just post them down in the comments and I’ll try my best to go into more detail.

Anyway… here goes, starting with the main session with Erwin McManus.

  • We end up using all our sincerest energies creating a space for Christians… not the unconnected.
  • We only like people that are just like us.  We magnetize towards people like us, so our church ends up looking like… me.  What we need to do is draw towards people UNLIKE ourselves.
  • We need to LOVE.  Love covers a multitude of irrelevance.
  • We need to be a city of others.  We need to do this first space well.  The God-fearing greeks need to outnumber the Jews.
  • It’s not that people aren’t searching – it’s just that they don’t know who to have a conversation with, who they can trust.
  • Jesus died to call us to live our most heroic life for eternity.
  • The Marketplace needs a gospel that makes sense.  Not a watered down gospel.
  • The moment you create a space for Dionysus, you will lose your space in the “first space”.  Jesus is looking for people who will have the guts to forsake the Martha, Mary’s and Luke and live with such intense courage for a world like Dionysus.
  • The difference we make is not for the Christians, but for the lost.

Breakout Session #1 – Dave Ferguson

  • New churches:
    • Grow 23 times faster than existing churches
    • 3-4 times the number of conversions as do older churches
  • Like geese, people can fly 75% longer if they fly in a flock.
  • Apostolic Leadership:
    • Ephesians 4:11-12
    • Apostolic leaders see the future more clearly than others
    • Apostolic leaders empower others to create new communities of faith
    • Apostolic leaders embed ideology (theology / philosophy)
    • Apostolic leaders guard ideology (theology / philosophy)
    • Apostolic leaders creates a tension between the new & established environment, edge & center, going & staying, lost & found… always values the new, edge, going & lost.
    • Apostolic leaders usually sends their best people out to start new things.
  • Shared Dream
    • Acts 1:8
    • Dream: a catalyst for a movement of reproducing churches.
    • Values: reproducing, relationships, residencies, resources
  • Gospel of Jesus
    • This must be the core of every movement.
  • Genuine Community
    • TRUST.
    • Four Credibilities:  Integrity, Intent, Capabilities, Results
  • Rapid Reproduction
    • Reproducing Leaders who starts a Reproducing Church that begins a Reproducing Network.

Breakout Session #3 – Gary Lamb and Scott Hodge

Gary Lamb:

  • It’s much easier to compromise about your vision than it is to be mean about it.
  • It is NOT easy to be mean… but you gotta be confident on what God has called you to do.  Don’t compromise on that.
  • If you can’t be mean about your calling… then you weren’t called.
  • We have glorified church planting… it’s not for everyone.
  • There’s a Judas at every table and he’s close enough to kiss you.
  • There’s a difference between being mean and being mean about the vision.

Scott Hodge

  • We’re not a church trying to reach the needs of a Christian culture… we’re reaching the unchurched people.
  • If you try to meet the needs of EVERYONE, you will be a confused church.
  • When people come to you and want to add or change the vision, ask this of yourself: “Have I not been clear?”
  • There is a disconnect between how people view Christ and the people who are representing Him.
  • Replanting a church – Know you’ll lose people, but don’t take it personally.
  • Let’s be gracious when people leave your church.  You may not be the right church for them.
  • It’s impossible to have a change in the church if you don’t have the change within you.
  • 3 questions you need to ask:
    • Who has God called us to reach?
    • What is it going to take?
    • Are we willing to pay the price?

So… those are my notes.  Hope they make some sense to you… but you know how notes go – they’re mostly what resonated with me :)

Some really great things happened today, like watching my sister, Renee, dance with Urban Poets as an opener for the main session for Erwin McManus.  Then, getting to go to dinner with Justin and Trisha Davis.  But those are just as great of events so I’ll post separate posts about those :)

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