I am fortunate enough to have TWO groups of people throwing baby showers for me.
My good friends, Jenn Wilson, Alli McKenney and Holly Resnick are throwing me one next weekend and my new church family at Church! at Bethany are throwing a combined one (there’s three of us ladies due in November… YIKES!) the following week.
Though I am SUPER DUPER grateful and quite excited to spend time with girlfriends and just relax for a bit, I have to wonder:
Is it a bit excessive to have a baby shower when you already have all the stuff you need from the first kid?
Granted, I DO need some practical things like diapers, diaper genie refills, new crib sheets (since Chance is still in a toddler bed), etc… but we ALL know not all people shop using the registration. Most of the fun of being invited to a baby shower is shopping for the things we OURSELVES want to see a baby in… not necessarily what they registered for. I’ve been guilty of this myself. I mean… how do you stay with the registry when there’s SO much cutie patootie stuff out there?
Here’s the problem with that:
Chance and Paxton will be sharing a room once Paxton is a few months old and ready to not be in bassinet in our room. I have a major fear of clutter. I spend most of my life clearing away the clutter. I’m worried I’ll get too much stuff I don’t need and not know what to do with it.
I sound totally ungrateful. I really don’t mean to be…
Is this ridiculous of me? You can tell me… REALLY!