Comments on: My Pool (Part Four) http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/ Jenni Clayville Mon, 06 Feb 2012 16:28:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Laura http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-11332 Laura Fri, 27 Aug 2010 22:50:58 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-11332 Aside from this being an AMAZING grace filled, faith filled, life changing story....the picture at the end is just beyond words! I am smiling ear to ear for your family, and I don't even know you. In fact this is the first day I've ever read your blog. Aside from this being an AMAZING grace filled, faith filled, life changing story….the picture at the end is just beyond words! I am smiling ear to ear for your family, and I don’t even know you. In fact this is the first day I’ve ever read your blog.

]]> By: Rebecca http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-11159 Rebecca Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:31:56 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-11159 I had an affair 2 years ago told my husband, i think we worked through it all, but i still don't feel free of it. I had an affair 2 years ago told my husband, i think we worked through it all, but i still don’t feel free of it.

]]> By: JD http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-10738 JD Wed, 11 Aug 2010 19:59:50 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-10738 I love, love, love analogies, and yours was great, Jenni. This really spoke to me: “I had a choice: to place blame and wait for “them” to come clean up their litter, or just take ownership and clean the parts that affected me” I can relate... I could be angry and bitter at my father (or satan!) for 18 years of sexual abuse/slavery, but what good would that do? To use your analogy, it'd be like taking a big huge gulp of polluted pool water and expecting him to choke on it and die, it just wouldn't honor God. He forgives us freely, and so must we. My issue with my mom is that she can't handle the reality of what my father did, of what he's still capable of, and her denial is utterly dangerous for all of us. God's working on it :) I love, love, love analogies, and yours was great, Jenni.

This really spoke to me: “I had a choice: to place blame and wait for “them” to come clean up their litter, or just take ownership and clean the parts that affected me” I can relate… I could be angry and bitter at my father (or satan!) for 18 years of sexual abuse/slavery, but what good would that do? To use your analogy, it’d be like taking a big huge gulp of polluted pool water and expecting him to choke on it and die, it just wouldn’t honor God. He forgives us freely, and so must we.

My issue with my mom is that she can’t handle the reality of what my father did, of what he’s still capable of, and her denial is utterly dangerous for all of us. God’s working on it :)

]]> By: My Pool « He Is Our God http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-10553 My Pool « He Is Our God Fri, 06 Aug 2010 03:52:27 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-10553 [...] recently read @jclayville‘s blog about her pool. Take a moment and read it so you know where I’m going with this. [...] [...] recently read @jclayville‘s blog about her pool. Take a moment and read it so you know where I’m going with this. [...]

]]> By: jenni http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-6887 jenni Wed, 25 Nov 2009 07:46:42 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-6887 i love YOU, sister! i love YOU, sister!

]]> By: jenni http://www.jenniclayville.com/my-pool-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-6886 jenni Wed, 25 Nov 2009 07:46:06 +0000 http://www.jenniclayville.com/?p=3641#comment-6886 randi - i hurt for you that you have ANY familiar parts to my story. i know the pain... so i am sorry. thank you for praying for us. know I am praying for you! randi – i hurt for you that you have ANY familiar parts to my story. i know the pain… so i am sorry.

thank you for praying for us. know I am praying for you!

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