Jenni on Skype: jclayville 
As most of you know, Brian and I have divorced our old marriage and have started anew.
And as if him just giving me a second chance wasn’t good enough… he went ahead and did THIS last night:
(to watch in Vimeo, CLICK HERE!)
My man is the most amazing man IN THE WORLD.
CHEERS! … to second chances… to starting over…
… to making it better than it EVER was before!
yay yay yay!
can’t wait!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
i can’t wait to see YOU!!!
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:31 pm
you will have to:-)
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joshua Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
thanks debbie-downer!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 10:03 pm
wah-waaaaaaaah *zoom-in-on-face*
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Yay, here is to the POTSC
I am a little jealous though, I cannot even find a women, let alone have the chance to propose. Congrats
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
did you want me to introduce you to a few ladies?
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Kyle Reed Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:23 pm
always
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Holy crap. Here I am sitting in the coffee shop in public crying.
Thanks, Jenni.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
you’re welcome
love you, girl!!!
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AWESOME! So emotional.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
i’m just starting to learn how to “feel”… so this is all good!
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So beautiful
Thank you for sharing such a precious moment!
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I’m sitting here with tears in my eyes. Brian is an amazing man and I’m so excited for you guys to recommit your vows and start your journey together again. Thank you for sharing this. Beautiful!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 12:37 pm
thank you for praying through this past year with us. you are a constant and loving friend. i am thankful for you, lindsey!
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Absolutely awesome! Tears AND goosebumps! Congrats. Second chances are such a gift from God.
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That was amazing and so wonderful to see. Congrats to you and Brian! Thank you for the reminder that there is 2nd chances (and a million) and that you can start over.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:23 pm
yes… many second chances to all who are willing to take them.
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dang, i love you guys. congratulations, my beautiful friends.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
thanks for the beautiful “Save The Date” creation you made for us! love you!
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Beautiful!
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SO happy for you guys! I love that you continue to choose each other. And celebrate your moments
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
i will choose love for the rest of my life.
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sweetness!
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“This video is not available in your country”…that’s what I get, but congrats anyway!!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
hahaha! sorry. it probably will be in a few hours. doesn’t it take awhile to catch up overseas? i dunno…
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Toby Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:30 pm
No, it’s a Sony music thing. Usually don’t have access to YouTube vids with music in them
. Use Vimeo 
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
i just added a Vimeo link for you, Toby!!!
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Toby Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 2:26 pm
You are now the second most awesomest girl of my day (my wife #1, of course)! Thanks for the link…..Great video! Wish we could be there to see it in May…..Looks like you’ll have to record that too
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Again, congrats and God bless!
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Yeah…. I read the comments first and saw Mandy’s and that “psh, whatever, I’m not gonna cry…”
I did. Totally. But in the privacy of my kitchen while my family is napping.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
it’s ok. i cried too. and i’m not a cry-er.
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oh and Brian… “most important girls” minus me, you mean?
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
well… obviously!
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:36 pm
Yep,
just talking local, guess you have to move out here.
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Crystal Renaud Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
Oh geez… not you, too. Ha!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:40 pm
brian said it. you must do now.
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Woo-hoo! Congrats!
And … it is beautiful!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
YOU’RE beautiful! thanks, friend!
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Awww. That is OUTSTANDING. Congratulations are in order AGAIN. God bless you both. Let me know if you want a little “Save the Date” action. I know a guy…
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:32 pm
hahaha! thanks Joshua! Crystal already made our save the dates… and it’s gonna be a pretty small ceremony so we’re gonna do hand made invites. thanks for everything though.
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Joshua Skogerboe Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 2:56 pm
Crystal as in “PinkHairedGirl”? Cool. Mostly I was kidding you – but I do think it is very very special that you guys are doing this. I’m a big fan of God. And when He shows up in a marriage and makes it work – like yours – the whole Church should celebrate.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
yes, pinkhairedgirl. hahaha. crystal is one of my besties…
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I hate you guys for making me cry… again. As if last night wasn’t enough.
Seriously – you guys are such an inspiration in SO MANY ways. I’m so glad you’re in my life.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:46 pm
thanks for being a part of this last night, Mikey! we LOVE sharing our lives with you and feel so privileged that you choose to share your life with US.
thank you… for ALL you are to me.
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:38 pm
Mikey,
I love that you are so real with our small group and so encouraging with your words and actions. Thank You. Sorry to make you cry again.
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yay! that’s awesome! congrats!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:46 pm
thanks, Jer!
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EW!! I made the mistake of watching this before I have to leave.. now I have to fix my face again! waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh! The tears won’t stop… ewwww.
You guys! I can’t tell you how healing and beautiful that is. Congratulations!!! I am so excited and WILL BE THERE Lincoln City May!
love love love you guys!! Excited EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
Renée
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:47 pm
i know, right? i cried too… and you know me… and crying… like… it never happens.
i can’t wait to see you in a few weeks, sister! miss your face!
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
Renee,
Sorry to make you cry before you left the house:-)
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Jenni,
Thank you for sharing. It was beautiful and sweet and romantic. Congratulations to you both. What a testament to what God does in our lives when we commit ourselves to Him.
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Awesome, awesome, awesome!!! I am so happy for u both!! What a great example of forgiveness & grace & love…AWESOME!!!
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Miss you guys.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:02 pm
we miss you too!!!
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That was probably the most beautiful thing I’ve seen in a long time. Thank you for sharing and CONGRATULATIONS!!! Yeah for second chances.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:03 pm
thank you. i’m still in awe over everything. God is good!
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I am in tears and praising our Lord for the beauty in this. If ever there was proof of the power to turn coal, with time & extreme pressure, into a diamond, this is it!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:03 pm
thank you, melinda, for being a prayer warrior over this from the beginning. you and your prayers are a HUGE reason for the restoration in our lives. THANK YOU!
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Melinda Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
The prayers continue with enthusiasm. I just shared this with Daniel. More tears. More ministry. The Groths are Clayville fans!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 6:20 pm
I love that! Thank you!
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To match the raining outside it’s now raining inside here…
The mot beautiful thing to wake up to, ever.
Love you.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
we love you too, mot…
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David Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
what.EV.AH.
sleepyhead + iPhone = inworshipping
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:41 pm
Your awesome!
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awwwwwwww! how cute!!
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Beautiful! Congratulations!
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I’m a friend of Holly and Lyndsey Resnick… Lynz directed me to your blog…so happy she did. Long story short, May 22 is my wedding anniversary and I’m so happy to be celebrating one this year. My husband and I separated not long after our anniversary last year. Infidelity was a huge factor. I’m happy to say we are both looking forward to rebuilding our marriage and recommitting to each other. Congratulations to you both. I will think of you on May 22nd…
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
Thank you, Marty! Praying for you too as we journey this part of life together.
Our anniversary is actually May 27th… but Saturday landed on the 22nd.
Cheers to second chances… and restoration, which is more beautiful than anything we could have ever imagined.
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brian Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:53 pm
Thanks for sharing. It is so great to hear of other people benefiting from the pain and healing that we have been through. I pray for complete restoration and healing for you as well.
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You guys are awesome
Rachel B
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she said yes!!!!!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
wouldn’t it be weird if i said “no”?
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Wow. That was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen. There’s not much that’s more amazing to see, than a redemption story. Talk about POTSC!
Congrats to you and Brian.
Oh, and yes. I too cried, but not in the privacy of my own home, it was at Starbucks.
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 4:25 pm
YAY for public crying! sorry, girl! we’re all crying together!
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! I’m so happy for you guys!!
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Jenni and Brian. I am truly so heartfelt happy for you guys!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:32 pm
thank you, friend. btw… i miss your face! playdate soon?
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So freakin awesome!!! Congratulations!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 9:39 pm
thanks, adam!
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just watched this for the 7th time today. i am in awe of God. just truly, in awe.
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I visit your blog often but don’t comment.
But this.
This is beauty in the making.
Your story. As each chapter unfolds is even more beautiful than before.
So excited for you as you start a new chapter in May.
Congratulations!
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jenni Reply:
February 12th, 2010 at 10:33 pm
CHRISTY!!! girl! we miss you! thank you!
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OMG! I AM GETTING MARRIED TOO! THIS IS SO EXCITING!
Are you really going to wear all three rings though?
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jenni Reply:
February 13th, 2010 at 8:53 am
yes. the ring he just gave me is skinny-mini and so of course!
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I love you guys so much!!!
Can we have the marriage renewal on tokbox? Thanks!
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jenni Reply:
February 13th, 2010 at 8:54 am
we’ll video tape it for sure… cuz i think you’re gonna be sleeping when we do this thing! maybe i’ll have crystal skype you guys so you can hear it over the phone when we’re doing it
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So very awesome…..God is the Healer and it is so awesome to see you two being a great story of forgiveness and healing.
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Just now watching, WOOT!
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Broke us both down this morning, Jenni–so many people are being helped by your openness and giving spirits. Thanks to the God of Infinite Chances..we all can choose to make things right.
Love you all—Lyndsey Resnick
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Jenni Clayville Reply:
February 13th, 2010 at 4:51 pm
you, my friend, have blessed us in INCREDIBLE ways. thank you, for your love, your prayers, your tears and generosity. you have NO idea how thankful we are for you and john.
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I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I can’t remember if I’ve posted before or not.
I just wanted to let you know that I am not crying right now. I just got something in my eye.
Twice.
Best Wishes.
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jenni Reply:
February 14th, 2010 at 10:52 pm
you HAVE posted here before. LOVE when you comment. THANK YOU!!!
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Congrats to both of you! It so awesome that our God is a God of second chances. I’m praying that He blesses you immensely in yours, and that someday He will grant me mine…
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jenni Reply:
February 16th, 2010 at 1:56 pm
We’re praying with you on those, Rainer! Please email us if you have specifics you’d like us to pray over.
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PERFECT. (found you through refineus.org) your story is an absolutely beautiful illustration of grace.
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Jenni Clayville Reply:
February 17th, 2010 at 2:31 pm
Thank you, Sarah, for coming by and commenting! Thanks also for your words of encouragement and affirmation! God IS good… and I am so thankful for second chances.
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what the crap!!!!
dang.
tears. lots of them!!
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Jenni Clayville Reply:
March 2nd, 2010 at 9:39 pm
um. brian just told me to tell you to stop being so emotional.
yeah. you can hit him the next time you see him.
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tam Reply:
March 2nd, 2010 at 11:30 pm
ass.
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i came back to re-watch this. all welly-eyed over here. again.
i wish i could be there on the 22nd!
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jenni Reply:
April 4th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
well… we’re even… since you ALWAYS make me all welly-eyed.
love you, friend. excited to hug you soon!
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